Callidus

I don’t think many of us in the EMC community would argue that our fetish is, by and large, one confined to the realm of fantasy. Yes, hypnosis is real, yes hypnosis works for some people. But actual hypnosis and the fetish-flavor we tend to peddle in are rarely the same thing. No mystical hypno-orbs; no mind-controlling serpents; no flashlight-shaped devices that turn people into slaves. Many of the trapping of our fetish can only exist in the imagination.

Many, but not all.

Now, if you want to get really nitty-picky about things, I’m turned on by hypnosis; I certainly eroticize mind control; but what I go full-on-fetish-fever for is brainwashing. Now, in this context (erotic mind control), brainwashing entails visors and googles; headphones and helmets, beds and chairs with straps to hold down unwilling girls…until they are made to be willing.

The apparatus I associate with erotic brainwashing factors largely into my creative endeavors within this fetish. But, as I started out today, much of that is just fantasy; it isn’t real. At least, not for most of us.

Most, but not all.

Over the weekend, I was hunting for something and I plugged ‘brainwashing goggles’ into google. A few interesting links filled the first page, more than a few references to Lost and Room 23. On the second page I was a bit pleased to see a link to my own corner of the web and then I glanced over a link to a blog I’d never heard of. The blog of a woman who actually does the sorts of things I manipulate into photos.

She and her Master (I believe they are married at this point) have a very loving D/s relationship. Part of the way they practice that, sometimes involves her dressing from head-to-toe in latex, being strapped into a dentist chair, covering her head with earphones and a special gas mask that has been modified to include trance googles inside, and having electrics, and suction, and vibrating sex toys applied to her body. All this occurs while her Master speaks through a microphone to implant his words deep into her mind.

Now, in all fairness I think that brainwashing is one of a multitude of fetishes she has, with BDSM being her primary focus. If you check out her site’s tag archive for the word ‘brainwashing’ she hasn’t written about any experiences in over a year. However, what she does relate is plenty amazing, scorching hot to read, and, very often, accompanied by pictures.

If you’re as intrigued as I am to read more, head over to This girl’s weblog to find out what happens when one couple lives out the things many of us, only fantasize about.